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A final parting farewell.

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Not really a poem as such more of a song lyric or loose collection of thoughts! Its nearly a year since it ended and 10 months since I tried to hang myself. A lots happened since then. I’m still alive and when you think about it what a fucking amazing achievement that is. I’m proud of myself and although I’m on another journey of discovery ( autism? ADHD? Thanks Katy!) my journey is definitely one of hope and in the end a story of understanding and redemption, at least I hope so.

I’m going to sleep in my bed, I’m rebuilding bridges with my mother that I partially broken down. I’m playing music again. Im looking forward to the summer when I can go and sit in a huge meadow at the museum and play some sweet tunes on my small pipes. My children are all happy and settled and my sister who has been battling her own demons has turned the corner.


Summer is nearly upon us and the daffodils show their butter yellow faces on the verges. The last set I was on a skylark was way up in the sky singing it’s very English tune and then I felt everything will be ok. Regardless of the choices I make, the earth will keep turning and the birds will keep nesting and singing their songs. My recovery isn’t all sweetness and light I’ve had some pretty dark days on and off. Generally my journey is upward. Football is starting again and I’ve got two films that I’m in to look forward to. Most of all I’m looking forward to making music with a set of small pipes I’ve ordered. God knows where I’ll find the £1500 but if it takes selling a kidney then that’s what I’ll do!!

Have a wonderful weekend and if you can have a listen to Fred Morrisons album Outlands...... he’s the chap that’s designed my pipes. ( anyone wanting that kidney please pm me! Xxx)

Hi, how are you?

I hope you’re keeping well

Keeping warm

And moving on?

Me? I guess I’m ok

Always the same

But in the cold

Standing still


Those lazy Sunday mornings

With the chill air pushing the curtains across the bed

Cold, but feeling the warmth

From your breath

And knowing that beneath

Your tousled wild hair

You were smiling.

At least for a while.


Our walks up the hill

How ironic that the tale

Of the ghost at the mill

Turned out true.

And I was the face in the window

Watching you fly away

To places I could no longer visit


The nights are long

I wonder whose hand you are holding?

Are those lips you are kissing

Are they as sweet as mine?

Do you ever think of me?

Am I even a distant memory

Gone forever from your life

Or was I just a salutary tale

Or a lost opportunity

To save us both?


All the bits and pieces

That you left behind

Are slowly taking shape

And in my mind

We are still together

Holding hands and laughing

Uncontrollably

At some silly word or gesture


It simply wasn’t meant to be

And I tell myself every day

That all will be well

And all will be well

For us both.






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